Usually it happens, girls are more attracted to boys who act rudely and less caring. Even though a nice guy likes and cares about her. They dont seem to notice that and prefer being with jerks even knowing they may not care about her.
Okay. Let me share a little of what I have observed, learned or experienced.
Whereas a gentleman guy will :
Girls don't fall for jerks.It's just that jerks don't hesitate to approach girls and take their chance.
Whereas a gentleman guy will :
- Silently admire a girl.
- Watch her from a distant corner in the classroom.
- Stalk her on every damn social network
- Tell his friends and everyone else except the girl , how much he likes her.
- Pray to God for some miracle.
- Wait for the girl to magically read his mind , and approach him.
- Either act stupid or arrogant in case they happened to have a little interaction. (Just in case).
- Never, or for not at least 3 years (whichever is more ) have the balls to walk up to her and convey his feelings.
- And just in case , against all the odds , he gets lucky (or balls) to get along with the girl, 99.98783% chances are he's gonna get trapped in the 'Friend Zone' forever.( Because of the fear of losing her as a friend and all BS).
- Gets straight to the point with the girl as he obviously doesn't have anything to lose.
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