You know that there is a particular aspect of mental strength that decides whether or not you will have a good life. The particular area of mental strength that has the greatest impact is that of emotional strength and its play a greatest role in introvert's and ambivert's life.
Emotions are our greatest motivators. Unfortunately, they can motivate us to act in any direction, even the wrong one. For this is reason, emotional strength is essential. There are countless situations that emotionally strong people (generally they in introvert categories) avoid and many actions they never take.
1. THEY DON'T BEG FOR ATTENTION
Needing attention is directly linked to emotion. Those who feel the need for recognition only find themselves experiencing feeling of worth when others make them feel needed; it's as if these people are uncertain of their value, or if they have any ounce of self- worth.
2. THEY DON'T ALLOW OTHER TO BRING THEM DOWN
Emotional strength requires flexibility. This world is filled with haters and trolls. There is jealous eyes lurking around every corner. The unfortunate truth is that often the people who hold us back the most are those closest to us. Getting rid of these people is often the best solution, but also the most difficult.
3. THEY DON'T HOLD GRUDGES
If you're holding a grudge, then you already care more about a situation than you should. If person apologizes genuinely, forgive him or her. If this person doesn't apologize, then don't interact with him or her, but don't hold grudges because its do more harm than good.
4. THEY NEVER STOP DOING THEIR OWN THING
Introverts or emotionally strong people do what they do because they love doing it. They don't plan on slowing down or stopping for anyone who seems their happiness inappropriate.
5. THEY NEVER STOP BELIEVING IN THEMSELVES
Those who love themselves and understand themselves and those who aren't afraid or proud to be themselves never doubt themselves.
6. THEY DON'T ACT LIKE BITCHES OR A*SH*LES
People are mean. But we wonder, why? Being a jerk is only good as an intimidation factor, and if you are trying to intimidate people, then you negotiator by profession; if you're intimidating just for the sake of it, you're obviously overcompensating for lack of confidence.
7. THEY'RE NOT AFRAID OF SLOWING DOWN
Introverts aren't in need of constant action and excitement. They don't need to run around all day and keep moving in order to avoid their demons. They appreciate a slow moment because it brings them closer to what it feels like to do nothing but living, breathing. This is not to say that they don't enjoy excitement in their lives, but they aren't junkies and are more than happy to just go for a walk and smell the roses.
8. THEY DON'T DO THINGS THEY DON'T WANT TO DO
We all do things that we don't love to do, but we should never do things that we don't want to do. Introverts and Emotionally strong understand that and almost always manage to figure out a way to focus on what they love, which allow them to figure out what they need to do, in order to do what they love, Although they may not love every second of it, they like doing what they are doing because it's bringing them one step closer to what they would love to do.
9. THEY HAVE NO PROBLEM SAYING "NO"
If you can't say "no" you will get abused. You will be consider a pushover and no one will ever ask you for your opinion or take it seriously when you give it. Saying "NO" reminds people that they don't have control over you.
10. THEY DON'T "FORGET" TO GIVE BACK
We're not too busy or too poor to donate our money or time. We don't forget, either. Some people just choose to ignore our responsibilities as human beings. The stronger you are emotionally, the more you come to appreciate others and life itself.
11. THEY DON'T FEEL THE NEED TO FIT IN
The stronger you are emotionally, the more independent you become. You don't feel the need to fit in because you fit in where it matters: THE WORLD. People form smaller social groups that are often skewed and unhealthy.
12. THEY DON'T FORGET THAT HAPPINESS IS A DECISION
Introverts have learned to understand the power their brains have over both the mind and body. They understand that emotions are reactions. In other words, our emotion don't reflect reality, rather, our emotions reflect the way we interpret reality.
13. THEY AREN'T AFRAID TO "LOVE"
Most Importantly, If you're afraid to love, you don't have enough confidence in yourself. You obviously think you can't be in a lasting relationship, but only in one that is doomed for disaster. You don't want to get hurt again because getting hurt really sucks. There is no reason for you to get your heart broken again because you are awesome. If things don't work out, it's not you. It's the two of you together. Unless, of course, you are an awful human being; in that case. it is YOU.
